How to remove roadblocks from your romantic relationship and avoid having the same arguments over and over

How to remove roadblocks from your romantic relationship and avoid having the same arguments over and over

Imagine a couple who fell in love, and stayed in love, for decades. But that feeling of being in love would be interrupted, to their deep dismay, by a pattern that kept repeating itself, for at least two of those decades, until the wife changed one thing she was doing, and then they never fell out of love again. True story.

Might you have a similar problem, in your romantic relationship, that is keeping you from being “in love” all the time? 

My own experience has proven to me that a relationship roadblock usually consists of one of two things:

  1. One person is keeping something from the other person.
  2. One person is unable to recognize something within. 

Let’s look at how these play out, and then talk about what you can do about them.  Read more